Why do people change, especially their love?

Recently, another pair of couple in the entertaining field were found having separated for a while, according to TV news. Well, this isn't new since there has been news about the divorce or separation of so-called "Silver Couples", such as Tom Cruise & Nicole Kidman, Brad Pit & Jennifer Aniston. What happened to them? Years ago, they were deeply in love with each other. Nevertheless, years later, one of them changed and set the worst example to the society.....

In the past, people seldom thought of the idea of divorce. They always stuck to the one they promised to be together with forever no matter what happened to one of them. My grandparents were a perfect example. (I used to be touched by their love and sacrifice for each other.) So are my parents (though they sometimes fought with each other). However, will I be able to have the same result as my parents and grandparents? I doubt it. One year ago, I always thought that I would be able to realize the same dream. But now, I start to distrust people. The reason is that people tend to change.

They change their look. They change the way they talk, the way they deal with things, the way they live and even they way they think. Some people, ironically, change the one they vowed to cling to for their rest of life. It's normal that we need to get rid of some old things when we change. For instance, we need to give away some old clothes if our weight changes. Thus, this leads to the thought that people tend to desert the one that has accompanyed them for a long time when they change their thinking patterns. Is that because they have changed their thinking, they no longer loved their old company? Is that the reason why there are so many people divorced or separated with the one they used to be deeply in loved with?

When people change, the poorest would be the one that are gotten rid of. What have they done wrong? Will they have to accept the result after long years of accompany and sacrifice? Why would they get this punishment? It is far from their fault! They actually are innocent, aren't they? They just shouldn't have trusted the one who changed, the betrayer, too much. They need to learn to be stronger and see people more clearly.

Will those betrayers be punished? Well, maybe someday!


20:23 February 28, 2007